Harry of Windsor, heir to the throne, a prince of the realm.

Listen, you are in the GREATEST crisis of your life. What you choose to do now, will shape your life for the rest of it.

Not only the role as a prince, but more importantly; the relationship to your family. Your brother and your father.

Harry, listen. The most important are not titles or money, it’s your family.

I understand, that there are differences and it is very, very difficult. Yet at the end of the day, what really matters is how you are able to connect and your relationships.

Now, there is off cause your wife and your beautiful children. They are off cause your closest family now. But they are difficult, essentially because Meghan is not royal. She doesn’t UNDERSTAND the role of royalty, that is to be self sacrificing, serving and NOT indulging in the glamour.

This basic schism is something you need to figure out how to handle. The first thing you do, is to take hard and dangerous talk with your wife, and set the rules. She doesn’t understand, she is ruining the whole thing.

YOU need to set the rules. Harshly if need be, but you need to do it.

If she doesn’t want to comply; then you either choose her, or your role as Prince.

But if you choose to shed the last ties to the crown, don’t be angry or vindictive. It’s YOUR choice.

If Meghan wants to accept your rules. Just tell your family, about this and then do as her majesty Princess Anne, and serve. Dutifully and honorably.

It’s who YOU are, Harry. You have SO much potential. That you have never had the opportunity, to unfold.

Fight for that mate. Don’t let this drag you down. YOU deserve to use your talent.

G-d bless the future of his eminence Prince Harry, may he find his power, to life his life to the fullest.