I think, that this generation of men, have absolutely no clue on how to get a good woman.
They think, that you are supposed to have success and then get a good woman. That is not how you get a good woman.
One of my acquaintances told me a story. He is a lord of an estate in around a place called Helms deep (where Tolkien named his location from). This guy is truly a cool guy. He told me, that once he was so nuts, that he ended up on the psych ward. Here he met his love of his life.
They fell in love in the psych ward, and built each other up. That way you get a woman, who will be there in sickness and health.
Like Connor McGregor, the famous Irish boxer. He met his wife far before he ever got famous. She built him up. Sacrificed herself for him. That way he became a success. That is the kind of woman you can build a life with.
Like my princess, she took me in, in my worst. Now she supports me with my career. She took me at my worst and built me up.
Women like that are VERY rare, yet you need to find them at the bottom of your life, not on the top.
However, they are what men really need.
Just ask McGregor, he has a beautiful wife, and she has been with him all the way.
G-d bless the will to find real things in this life.