Let me try and explain.
When I studied at university, I did a project in gender studies. We had this pretty thorough study on men and women, and some of the ideas that drove the whole movement. At the time, I was enrolled in a very left wing university.
To me, the whole fight between man and woman did not make much sense.
Then in all the debate, there was actually one female voice, that said. It is fine with all the liberation between man and woman, but what about romance.
That question really stuck with me.
Because what we loose in the gender wars as meetoo and the other conflicts is the romance.
So, instead of entering the trench wars, I thought, well let’s try a positive angle. So I started to study platonic romanticism.
So I have been looking, a long time, for someone that I may work with. I gave up actually, and then you came along, and you are just perfect in the sense, that we are in the same frame of mind, we have a lot of the same ideals and same destiny. So it all just made sense.
So this is what I have thought about for some time, trying to find a heart of gold.
So I found you.
G-d bless the will to realize the beauty of love.
