Listen princess this is how love works.
First of all, love is often like this wild stallion, you jump onto it, and then you have to steer your way on this wild beast through a lot of terrain.
In the beginning you get this amazing gift of emotions, that just carry you away.
If you handle it with responsibility and care, it will grow into a lasting base of security and wellbeing.
In fact, no-one can live without a spouse, it is just so that we humans are built. We need someone at our side to give us strength.
What is really important though is to keep the flame alight. What you experience right now is essentially the dream all people want to dream. Romance, deep emotion, wild dreams in your mind.
The thing is, we can keep the flame alight, or we can do other things in our life.
Not keeping the flame alight is a choice, then we end up cooling off.
Tending a love life is tedious, it takes a lot of effort, and it is often difficult in this world to have time to do it right, there are other duties in life.
It takes a lot of effort, and it is a prize you have to pay. The attention you give to those you love will take away from your own selfish interest.
At the end of the day, love is a reflection of sacrifice. I know that that may sound old fashioned and all. But that is just the way it works. Are you ready to give of yourself?
In the beginning it is quite easy, after some time, you still have to do it. In fact, you have to do it as long as you are together.
This is one of those things that are a fact of life, and why the good guys stay together. Because they are ready to give of themselves and do not expect their love ones to sacrifice themselves, but are happy when they do.
G-d bless the will to share what you have with those around you.