Ok, so there is the discussion on “what will happen after the war”. There is a range of problems, that we have to talk about. Talking about them already now is important. We are moving in some kind of positive direction with the peace discussion between the Hamas leadership and the Israeli part.
So the “what is next” is very important.
At the end of the day, the main discussion will be on power.
How much power will the administration that is left in Gaza, how will it be defined, who will control it and so on.
Since Egypt has been leading the last round of negotiations, obviously this is on the top of Egypts mind.
So Egypt needs to figure out if it wants some kind of practical control over Gaza or not.
If not, who will have that control?
What the Gazans really want, is to get rid of Israeli control. So they want to be free.
How will that come into existence. Is Hamas going to play a role in this or not?
These issues are the ones we need to adress.
It is all about the LIMITS.
Where do the limits of power start and end.
There is the practical power situation, and there is the POTENTIAL.
If there is a POTENTIAL in the deal for another 7´th October which is essentially Hamas having the means to go over the border to Israel and wreak havoc, then that is totally out of the question.
So that is really the most important, we have figure out a plan, that will actually make a free Gaza and at the same time a plan that does not make it possible for Hamas to rearm and start the cycle all over again.
G-d bless the will to think ahead and be realistic about the challenges for a potential plan of peace.
Princess, there was once a philosopher in Denmark called Knud. E. Løgstrup.
He was this really nice man, and a hero of sorts. When we were fighting in the Second World War, he was in the council of the freedom fighters.
He had this beautiful wife called Rosemary. Rosemary was originally German, so you could imagine how this was problematic for Knud.
One day the soldiers came to the home of the philosopher to ask for him, and his wife was home, and she was German.
So she was divided in loyalty to the Germans and her husband.
This was a bit of a crisis for the Løgstrups, and Knud thought a lot about it.
He has this beautiful saying about those that you love. You carry them in your hands.
This is kind of the tradition in Denmark about these things. “Take care about my heart, because it carries no weapons” a popular song goes.
That is really true in a way, trust, openness mercy are things we want in our relationship. But to have those things, we need to carry that heart with care. The heart doesn’t carry any weapons, as the song goes.
So I guess my idea is, that I have to be careful, because your openness and trust is vulnerable. The same goes for me.
We have to carry each others heart with care.
G-d bless the will to be careful about how the other feels about this.
Well, princess if we are going to work our magic, we should probably think a bit about what we really want to do with our lives.
My idea is, to try it INSPIRE.
Inspiration is the good way to lead and make a better world.
This inspiration is then come off of our love. People will see how happy we are, and then they will see that as an ideal.
G-d bless the will to make place for love.
Dear Charles. I would be more than happy to work with you.
I a sense I am already working a lot with you, I heal you are your family every day.
But getting a more stable and direct connection would be really good I think.
G-d bless the will to work for those you really like a truly support.
Princess I am really sorry, that I had to be so blunt yesterday.
The arguments are pretty straightforward. We need to show, that we are able to handle the pressure and the questions coming our way.
But it was a little unkind. Too strong and straightforward.
I should have been more careful.
I am sorry.
G-d bless the will to learn from what you do and get to know your lovers limits. And good morning.
Well princess, sweet dreams. It has been a day of trying to be honest and be true.
I just want to tell you, that when you truly love someone, there can actually be honesty between you each other.
That honesty makes it possible to evolve together, because you get to understand, together, what might be the right path.
G-d bless the ability to say things, and be loved not despite yourself, but because of yourself. 🙂
Rubicon has been awarded a prize from the EU, I really appreciate the award. It shows, that the EU appreciated what I do and I guess that goes then full circle.
Thank you, and may we find a way to solve all our differences in a menial and peaceful way.
G-d bless the will to find peace in this world.
Ok, so the EU seems to want to play ball.
This is good news, we can do this.
I am a conservative, and have developed a lot of the theory behind a lot of the conservative agendas. Right now, I am working on a rennaissance of the royals of the world essentially.
Trying to understand what the role of royalty may be in the world, and how it can be supported in a more profound way.
This does not mean, that democracy is out of the window however. My motivation does not lie in an attempt at making a world where royalty is the only way. We have to find balance between conservatism and liberalism.
So, when we get to the discussion of the EU, we will have to try and find the dynamics that truly makes a good republic.
G-d bless the will to find balance in this world.
Princess, I really appreciate that you accept my honesty.
You are cool about it, and take it just really well.
That is reassuring in your character that you can take these things and react well on them.
You are truly a princess. 🙂
G-d bless the will to be able to be honest.
Princess. I love you, I will always be true, and I believe in us.
So, dont worry, everything is going to be ok.
G-d bless the will to be true and honest.
There is the legitimate concern, that the relationship the princess and I have is not good for the Spanish crown.
Let’s have a look at it.
First of all, I have from day one, without reflecting a lot on it, begun to think “what is good for the Spanish Crown” in our relationship. I am humbly aware, that how we do things, will reflect back on the Crown. So we have a massive responsibility towards the Crown.
This has to do with how we appear to the public, that we are honest in our relationship, that we are always serving and not taking.
There is the fact, that I have already had a marriage and two kids. This is something that I have been completely honest about from the beginning. There is no cheating here.
The issue here is really fidelity. Will the relationship Leonor and I have be based on fidelity and truth. There is this to say to that, that my ex is who she is. She did some choices that I have not been public about, and that is her choice.
From my point however, there has never been any case of lack of fidelity of any kind. At the contrary I am very old-fashioned in this regard.
Then how would I tackle the publicity around it? I would probably engage in things that I find important. Art, science, faith. Deepen my relationship with the Catholic church, try to support a positive development in arts and science.
I have a lot of experience with political processes, and I will apply it to our relationship in the sense, that I will strive to make it an example of a how you make a happy marriage.
I have already done a lot in this regard, and tried to support the princess to the best of my ability.
So, this is what I am going to do. Will it work? Well, we don´t know until it is public.
What we can do however, is to plan and do our best to make a positive appearance.
I am a journalist myself, I know how the press work. So I am not really worried, but I am not that familiar with the Spanish press, so there is something I need to learn there as well.
All in all, there is a good case for a happy marriage and a serious success for the Spanish crown.
We will have to see, but I am all in on supporting the Crown and strengthen it.
And again, this is not a bid to be king, I have enough of that already with Israel, so I have my hands full, to say the least.
G-d bless the will to make this a positive relation, all around. And, most importantly, make the princess happy 🙂
Good morning princess, may you have a long a lovely day 🙂
I will then sit here and try to figure out, how we make this world a more peaceful and joyful place.
G-d bless the will of finding the right choices for both us, and the world.
It has been a long day princess, I have been working on the eco farm. It was really nice to sit in the sun and just relax.
I feel so sure about us. It is kind of strange, I mean, what do I really base this sympathy in?
But that is how I feel, and I just hope you feel a bit of same.
And btw, I really mean my ideas going to Spain, I am totally willing to do that. It is really the only way this is going to work.
MAYBE I end up as king of Israel, and then we will have to take it from there. But I mean, if I could just continue being the functioning king here on the blog, that would be a bit easier.
Anyway, just let’s meet ok?
I am not trying to put any pressure, I just feel like seeing you.
G-d bless the possibility of really meeting in real life. 🙂
This the holocaust Remembrance Day. When I think about holocaust I reflect on my own family’s tragedy. My family was very lightly hit compared to a lot of the Jews who were living in Eastern Europe, that was where the persecutions were most intense. They just used Jews as slaves in the factories there. It was disgusting.
My grandmother was the only one who had to flee. She did it on a small fisher boat, and that was relatively secure. I mean, just imagine having to be an old woman holed up in a fisher boat fleeing and not knowing what would happen on the other side.
She was extremely respected in Denmark being headmistress of Vallekilde Højskole, a cultural gem in Denmark.
But the nazies had not such fine feelings about old Jewish ladies. She had to flee.
She had a good friend called Brandes who is supposed to be a founding member of Israel. Brandes was a humanist, and this tradition has gone through our family down to me. This is why I care so much about what is happening in Israel. I know, you can say a lot about Israel, but for our family it is supposed to be to be a safe haven for Jews who are persecuted around the world.
Remember that, when you are fighting with the army of Israel. It is not yours, it is a gift given to you with the blood of a lot of Jews, so dont risk that gift.
G-d bless the will to keep Israel safe.
Well it seems to me, that the European Union seem to be actually able and motivated to work with my ideas. I appreciate it, a lot.
So please, could you perhaps put the Middle East peace project in motion?
It’s not only about me, it is more about you learning to be an international player in your own right. It requires skill, and this project is a way to BUILD that skill.
G-d bless the will to build serious international relations.
Dear Charles, you mention, that you see me as family. I just want you to know, that that is EXACTLY how I feel with all of the royal family as well.
The things we have been through, and the support we have given each other is really special. So just so you know, we are family 100%
G-d bless the will to be appreciative of those who you really see as family.
There is a certain beauty of these days, the spring, the blossoming of the flowers here in the countryside that I am working. Even the song birds seem to chime in.
It is as though your own happiness spreads like rings in the water. I hope that those ripples reach all the way to Spain, where you are probably sitting in some class watching your own ripples spread around you.
G-d bless the will to see the world through our view, to make us all happy.
Good morning princess. The beauty of a look, is enough for a whole day to be blessed with joy and radiance.
I see that look in your eyes, and get to start a long day with your smile in my mind.
G-d bless the will to be blessed with such a beautiful smile.
Ok it seems to me, that there has actually not been made any final deal, that Hamas could accept. They have just accepted what was the basics of a deal. That would be 1/3 of the hostages for a ceasefire. Then we can continue the discussion without an attack on Rafah.
Is that ok with everyone?
God bless the will to find a good deal everybody can agree upon, and may we find peace at the end of this.
Princess this is just a good night message, before I turn to myself in to sleep.
At the end of the day, it is not truly your beauty that inspires me, or your class. It is YOU, your personality and grace.
I can’t explain it otherwise, but I do know that it is there, and I look forward to see thees qualities much more.
G-d bless the will to be honest at heart and true in speech. May we find all that we look for.
Seriously, what I day. I have kind of locked myself in the royal families in terms of philosophy. You know, that is going to be amazing, there is so much we can do. And I just really look forward to seeing the princess, and try to emerge as a pro conservative royalist.
Not to leave the other points of interest. There is no way, that I will leave any of my readers and those who I inspire politically from Bernie to ms. Le Pen.
It is just so nice, to finally be able to be a part of a the world in a more physical and normal sense.
And the ceasefire is finally here, I hope that it holds. Well done everybody so far.
G-d bless the will to let love lead you, to the eyes of the princess.
Dear princess, I really appreciate, that the world we are going to build, will be a world of wonder and beauty. A world where people are appreciated and understood. A world that is ruled by positivity and recognition.
And all that starts in the beauty of your smile.
G-d bless the will to uphold virtues as recognition and appreciation, and see it exactly in your smile.
Ok, I hear you, you do not want my help, and prefer to do everything yourself.
How is that supposed to pan out after the election, and you get an overwhelming majority AGAINST you in the parliament?
I mean, then you could start fighting the conservative majority, OR you could try and find a compromise with them?
I will help you with the latter, but please, would you be so kind, so not trying to obstruct my life all the time?
G-d bless the will to find compromise within the democratic ideas.
There has been a lot of help from the EU towards me, not least when the commission stopped the Danish PM in sawing off my branch this Christmas time.
So I am actually trying to pay back.
There is however also some kind of draw back it seems from the EU. The projects I proposed through the funding system seems to be stalled and the commission keeps on promising me some kind of prize, that I have no idea what is supposed to mean, and does not have any prize money attached to it.
You know, I don’t really know what that means.
It is ok, but if you want my help, please be clear about what your priorities are.
I would really like to go to the Middle East through the EU funded project, but that seems to be stalled, and I have no idea what is going on.
So, please if you read this. What do you want from me?
G-d bless the will to support those who you can help.
Ok, I guess that that is a deal then? We will have to figure the details out, and off cause try to take it easy. However that would go.
I have experience with lawmaking and political process. Essentially it is about LISTENING to the public and finding the best compromise.
When you are royalty, you have to have a very great respect for the democratic institutions. At the end of the day, it is the parliament that takes the decisions. Like me and Israel now, I HAVE to respect the Prime minister there. I try to help, discuss ideas, support the defense and so on. But the Prime minister is the ultimate boss.
So, don´t worry, it’s going to be ok. We can do this.
Mind you, I will not be king, you will be queen in all matters. I will support you, to the best of my ability.
G-d bless the will to support each other in all these matters, and find happiness.
Ok, if you are in on that, there are a lot of things that need to happen.
First of all, you need to ask your dad if HE is ok with it as well.
I like him a lot, at least from what I have been able to deduce from the videos I can see on the internet. We are very much the same kind of type, but he will have to give a green light.
So you need to ask him, from there we could arrange this, and be together.
G-d bless the will to RESPECT family.
Princess there are a few things that I want to ask you about.
How would you feel about me moving to Spain?
As I see it, we have to be there to make this work really. I have to be with my two children here. So it will be a 50/50 time deal.
But I will be willing to move to Spain, to support you and the Spanish crown.
G-d bless the will to support the Spanish crown.
Ok, readers of this blog, and the very special beautiful girls Leo. I am going to bed early, tomorrow there is work.
Tomorrow I will follow up on the development of the Israel/Gaza negotiations and see if I can comment on something that will further the positive outcome of the conflict.
Anyway, nice dreams and may g-d protect us all, send his angels to spread their wings over us and give us peace.
Leo, I think poetry must be a true way to really shower attention on beautiful girls.
The thing is, we poets need to be inspired, so my luck is, I have all the inspiration I need right in front of me.
You can really filled up with the attention, and that is how it should be.
G-d bless the will to shower attention on all those beautiful girls whom stand in front of you, and may they be happy. 😊
Well, I guess that the war and peace negotiations are heading for a conclusion, at least this time around.
So there is not much to say, than there is also that of humanity. Your enemies are actually also human beings.
G-d bless the will to see people as they are.
Ok, I just want to make one thing totally clear. I am not the president, Mr. Netanyahu is the president. I work, in practice, as the king. Which means, that I convey the ideas of g-d.
But I have no illusions of my worldly power. The front man of the current government is mr. Netanyahu, and I must stress, that I believe, he has done a crack on job on this whole crisis.
I know, that there are maybe points where we disagree. But there is no criticism in it from my point of view, I try and analyze the issues to find peace, and get the hostages home. That is my aim, and then off cause to make a lasting peace, that will secure Israel as a nation.
But it is still and with no doubt, mr. Netanyahu who takes the final decisions.
Also, mr, Netanyahu is my friend, and just for that reason, I would never try and put a stick in his wheel, there are enough of those who do that all the time, and I don´t want to be one of them.
So his word carry the final decision.
G-d bless the will to support the democratic institutions of Israel. And may they last.
Concerning the idea, that some men abuse women. For me, that is just a total sin. I have FOUGHT for women’s right for their own body and soul over and over again. Not least the anti violence law that I was a part of here in Denmark and a number of other elements.
To be a dancer, being together with a lot of women all the time, it kind of gets the whole thing of women being human beings as yourself under your skin.
G-d bless the will to PROTECT women.
Ok let me try and explain why mr. Netanyahu is keeping the option of the Rafah operation open. It is a PRESSURE point.
He sees it as a kind of lever to make sure, that the deal is implemented. So that may make a bit of confusion, because it actually does not seem to me, that the Gazan Arabs are understanding the effort. They just want a deal, that makes them free.
So that is really the reason why the Rafah op is still on the table.
The way Mr. Netanyahu figures it, he will take the option off the table as a CONSEQUENCE of the deal.
It may be a bit like a strange way to negotiate, but there is just no other explanation.
So, what the Gazan Arabs could propose is, to finish the Rafah op as a prerequisite for accepting the phase one of the deal.
G-d bless the UNDERSTANDING of what is going on in the negotiations.
When you are good couple, you become each other’s best friend.
What happens to one, happens to the other. You become a unit and that unit has to take a lot of pressure as life unfolds.
Supporting each other in that instance is therefor really important.
So, just for the record princess, I will support any way I can, and I hope you will do the same for me. So that we can be each others best friend.
G-d bless the support you can give each other.
When you are the end of your rope, tie a knot and hold on to it. Is supposed to be a proverb of the cowboy president Lyndon B. Johnson.
He must have known, he had a rough life, loosing his wife and his mum at the same time.
So what is the meaning of this, and how will it apply to Israel.
First of all, finding solace and redemption is about staying on your faith and priorities despite the pressure. Tying a knot and holding on to it, is about not changing how you look at things, and just stay the same.
So we have done that. Found unity and stuck together. Yes it has been tough, and the challenges to the unity we have had has been difficult. Yes there has been disagreements, but we have held on to the knot of unity.
So, now when we are nearing the end of the this conflict, then what?
Then we start our normal lives again, but what is important I believe, is the fact that we should try and remember those lessons we learned along the way.
How unity is the prerequisite for a strong community.
There will be disagreement off cause, after all we are Jews, so there will be a plethora of opinions, but it should inscribed in our religious texts, that after the 7 of October we were given unity as a nation to overcome our difficulties. It is a very important point to remember for future generations.
Unity is the combined strength of all of Jews.
G-d bless the will to be united under one banner, the banner of solidarity.
Well, now we have essentially figured out, what it is the Palestinian Arabs really WANT, then the negotiations will be easy.
They WANT their freedom, so our job is to make sure, that the freedom we provide will be REAL.
Often when you work with Mossad and other secret services, the deal you make with them are like five minutes deals, then something else rings their bell, and they change their mind.
So for a true freedom to be ensured, the deal should be permanent and include checks and balances that include the secret service.
I know that the Middle East is fluctuating and ever changing, and the deal we make now will eventually be changed for something else according to the changes of international politics.
We should however make a deal that is iron clad for the foreseeable future. Something that locks the different parties into a balanced deal, that both sides approve.
Israel wants security, Hamas and the rest of the strip wants freedom.
These goals are attainable and the more one side gets his goal fulfilled the more the other side gets his goal fulfilled.
It is a true win win situation.
What we need to make sure, is that the QUALITY of the agreement is 100 %, so that it will work for a long time.
G-d bless the will to be sure at making a quality deal, that both side agrees upon, and makes both sides happy and content in their agreed background, may we find peace again.
Princess, I have this feeling, that the romance we have is going to be an amazing inspiration for a lot of people. In that sense, this is for more than just you and me, it will be for everybody in the sense, that what we have can be for those who join us in the way we do things.
We can be that star for people to strive for.
G-d bless the inspiration we can give to people who look for love.
I have been noticing a lot of commercials for Dior at my Facebook page, and that is always how a lot of the international players like to communicate with me.
It has kind of put me a little off, why would Dior have any interest in me?
Then it all of a sudden struck, off cause, we are witnessing one of most beautiful romances of this day and age. A true platonic philosopher and a beautiful princess, it talks right into the whole universe of Dior and some of the French fragrance makers, the ULTIMATE romance in a sense.
If that could be put onto bottles it would probably be a thing of beauty as well.
So, fragrance used to be an alchemical procedure, trying to find the essence of some beauty.
That is what we should do here, definitely. If we could bottle the romance, that would be an amazing artistic endeavor.
I am a sailor, so it should probably include some of that sense. The beating of the waves, the smell of the sea. The rich blue tint of the bottle. Then the flowers of spring and the passion of the deep intense romance. That would just be an amazing thing to do. The bottle as well, that could be a fun thing to make.
Here in Denmark we have humor, there is rock star who made rock on roll deo, that was fun.
But I mean, to capture this moment in fragrance, that would be just beautiful.
And princess, if you go out tonight, it’s ok. As long as you imagine that it is me that you are dancing with, ok?
G-d bless the will to refine this moment of beauty into fragrance.
Princess what I meant by you having to go with your heart is, that I don’t fake.
I am too much of a truth seeker and enlightener to fake anything.
So what you see is what you got.
G-d bless the will to be true.
Princess, always do what your heart tells you to do. It is not faking.
G-d bless the will to be true.
Ok, we are discussing the peace treaty, and we will find it. But first we need to figure out, what it is that we are truly negotiating ABOUT.
Netanyahu has made a fine plan, with a lot of material gains, that is possible for the Gazan Arabs. That is fine, and I would definitely say yes to that.
BUT, and yes you guessed it, there was a but.
Palestinian Arabs are not asking for money they are asking for freedom.
So if WE are to meet the Palestinian Arabs we need to figure out a way to meet their demands, otherwise we will not be negotiating in a way that will make sense to the Palestinian Arabs.
How are we going to secure, that the Palestinian Arabs have freedom?
There are essentially two modes of way to secure freedom. One is military/physical power, the other is the CONSTITUTION of a given country.
The first, how much Hamas must disarm and so on, is really the basic issue. We have to find a good solution that gives Gazans freedom, but at the same time secures Israels territory.
One of the things I have had a good experience with where I have worked with Muslim countries that have democratized, because that is what you get, when you want freedom in the constitution is human rights.
If we secure and strengthen human rights and a fair election, the citizens of Gazan Arabs will have freedom.
So, if the issue is freedom, these are the levers we can pull.
G-d bless the will to find freedom for the oppressed Gazan Arabs.
Dear princess, the best part of having you as an ideal is the fact that I can see something wonderful in front of me, and then let myself be inspired.
G-d bless the inspiration we can give each other 🙂
Princess I just want you to know, that I believe that you are one of the most beautiful persons in the world.
It can repeated, it will never loose its truth and beauty.
Thank you for you.
G-d bless the will to see the beauty of you.
Remember when I told you about that creature with four arms and four legs that became separated and is looking for its other half?
When we meet again, the process of linking is often difficult, because we have been away from each other for such a long time.
But when we ARE whole again, the completeness we feel will be a total rest.
G-d bless the will to feel whole again.
My feeling is, that we are at this pivotal moment. Israel is going either this or that way, but it seems to me, that we are actually going to make it.
My relationship with the princess is actually going really well. This is off cause something personal, but the potential for what we can accomplish together in this world is just mindbending. She is such a beautiful person. The world will fall just as much in love with her, that I have.
Add to this the movement in the royal British house. When we get out of this conundrum, we will be MUCH stronger. This will have a lot of really positive implications for Britain, and in extension of this the British empire.
Add to this, the rebounding US and the potential within Europe, all in all, the West is back as a GROWING power and will not be declining anymore.
We are, essentially, in the middle of a Western renaissance.
G-d bless the will to find solace in the fact, that things are actually going in the right direction. G-d bless the will to find redemption in the direction of the Western world.
Dear princess Charlotte
Happy birthday, what a wonderful day for you. My own two daughters have also just had birthday with the whole chorus of family and happiness.
My feelings are, you have the same joy in your life, thanks to your wonderful parents 🙂
Happy birthday!
G-d bless a very happy birthday:)
Ok princess let me try and explain.
Your beautiful name means light.
Light is the truth, according to the old scriptures of Plato and so on.
So when you shine with that beautiful light it is because you are essentially honest.
When you are honest, you can’t cheat in all the other areas of your life. Because if someone asks you on this and that, and you are always honest, then you would have to tell about your things done wrong.
So honesty, light and good moral life are the same. They are essentially prerequisites.
I have been a massive truth teller and speaker. Some years ago more than now. I just went to the top of the highest mountain and let anyone know the truth. In other words, I am what you call an enlightener.
So people got extremely mad at me, and started trying to shut me up.
I stood there with my eyes blazing calling forth truth and in changed the world.
When you are going to shed your own beautiful light, probably you won’t do that. And my advice would be to maybe do things a little more mild, as you are doing.
It’s a path essentially that you can choose, the path of light.
It will bring you to a place of beauty, but what you give in exchange is all the easy sins you can make. Because it is not nice to have to tell your lover, that you may have…
G-d bless the will to be a true light bringer.
Listen princess, I know that the ten commandments seem like a VERY boring thing.
But the thing is, to set you free, which is what I want to do. I have to KNOW that I can trust you.
There is a direct connection between morals and freedom.
It may sound boring, but if I can trust you 100%, you can essentially do whatever you want. Go to concerts, festivals, travel without me. Though off cause, I would like to join you.
I am not a kind of person, that is settling in a specific situation. Yes, I prefer to be close to those I love, but I am moving all over all the place. My life changes a lot.
So, you will see me flying all over the world. We can’t be together ALL the time. Sometimes, I will have to do things when you are not there.
But you can trust me, I won’t cheat you in any way.
I want you to behave in the same way. Hopefully you will go all over the world and have an amazing life.
I want to set you free, and be sure, that I can just rest my head in the night. Say good night and then have trust.
Get it?
G-d bless the will to find trust.
Dear Charles, I just want you to know, that I am watching over both you and Her majesty Catherine.
I heal you both a lot, and lift your spirits.
Sometimes things may look dark, then let me know, and I will lift your spirits.
G-d bless the will to help dear friends in a time of struggle. May he bless the health of a good friend so he may be strong again.
Princess, what do I want from you? I want YOU to be happy. This will happen if I am happy.
So it is a two way thing. If you are happy, I am happy.
One of the things that matter a lot to me, are the Ten Commandments. It may sound a little old fashioned. But essentially the Ten Commandments are guidelines for a good relationship, apart from being a dedication to one G-d.
You have to be clean in your ways, dont go for other men or women. King Davids downfall was when he sent Urias to die to get to Batseba.
To me a relationship is like a small garden that you prune and care for. When there are kids, they get to live in that garden, so your love will spread like a green carpet of grass under them, to find solace and a place to be happy as well.
In our situation, where a lot of eyes will be looking at us, those Ten Commandments are like the most important. People do not forgive us, if we step over them. Davids downfall was exactly that. So for royalty these limits are pretty iron clad.
So, maybe make a small garden between the two of us, a home and a happy place to come back to when we have both been out fighting for a better world?
Does that make sense to you, and what do you want from me?
G-d bless the will to find happiness in this world.